Sunday, January 5, 2014

First Solo Trip

The first discovery you can do is self.  Nobody has said that yet.

Random though it sounds, the discovery and the travel finally started, courtesy the musings bit. After a lot of research, and reading travel blogs, I finally zeroed in on Matheran- much less adventurous than the unheard places I had read about in the blogs, and even more short-lasting.
But the common thread was the uncertainty, flexibility, adventure, new people, and to top it all,  time to muse! Unfortunately, I didnt come across many travelling "partners" that had got me excited reading the blogs, but that only shows the best is yet to come! The only one I did, though, asked me after a minute of deliberation: Are you a loner?
 Answering that question was a huge realization per se.  I replied in the negative, only to realize that I so wanted to become one,at least for then.
There is all the material on web on Why you should travel alone? The number of reasons from 5 to 50, depending on how passionately the Blogger feels about the question. After having done it myself, albeit on a very low scale, I feel you should do it once to answer the question. Do it for as short as 6 hours and you will find your reckoning.But like recognition, everyone needs it, only reasons differ.

In my first trip, I had walked 10 kms without realizing the pain, not even the next day! I observed, contemplated, watched, and moved on. The sheer blankness was bliss. The new thoughts replaced old ones. And the new people replaced the regular ones. The planning and organizing took a backseat, and sheer adventure was everything.
Here comes the definition: Adventure is doing something for the first time.